Marriage - Just a Piece of Paper
The third
great attack on marriage was no fault divorce.
Once one becomes serious in
thinking about how society has gone wrong, no fault divorce comes very clearly
into focus. Even though nearly everyone knows or has met someone who has been
divorced and has seen the devastation caused. No fault divorce is supported by
most without much thought. Who wants two people who don’t want to be married to
stay married by force they argue?
But then I think of the long view of history,
for nearly the whole of human history a divorce was hard to obtain and life
went on. Why did it become necessary to create a regime whereby divorce is so
easy to obtain? The answer is Bolsheviks and Lawyers. The first no fault
divorce was instituted in 1918 by the Bolsheviks in what became the Soviet
Union. In the Western world, California
under the so called Conservative, Governor Ronald Reagan was the first to
institute no fault divorce in 1969.
Who
campaigned for it? Lawyers did, as they believed that most people seeking
divorce lied to obtain it. If the law was changed they wouldn’t have to lie. No
fault divorce spread around the world and today is the default position of
nearly every divorce law. It wasn’t ordinary people who marched in the streets
for such a law, we didn’t write petitions or stage sit-ins or anything else,
most people were happy as the law was, but when has that mattered to those who
think they are our betters!
Of course no
fault divorce had it’s problems, instead of couples going through a rough patch
and trying to fix things up, many regarded it as a “get out of jail free” card.
A way to end the “problem”, which then set in motion a whole set of new problems,
money, property, child custody, child support. Then we have the human wreckage
of divorce, trust issues, the belief that nothing is permanent (particularly relationships),
anger, despair, frustration, assault, suicide, even murder. I’m not sure how
that is better than a flawed marriage.
They turned marriage from a sacrament into a commodity, from something sacred to something disposable. They created the belief that marriage is just a piece of paper.
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